San Diego, where the sea lions taught me to do nothing

A slow afternoon on the La Jolla coast, watching sea lions sunbathe with a conviction I can only aspire to.

May 2025 · 1 min read

#california#coast#slow travel
30May/ 2025 archive by : thatduckling

The sea lions were just lying there, as if tomorrow didn't exist. Huddled together in a lazy embrace on the warm stone, they'd clearly decided that weekdays and weekends were a human invention, and not a very good one.

I'd come to La Jolla for the cliffs and the famous dragon trees — those wide, alien silhouettes that look borrowed from a different planet — but it was the sea lions that held me. They had no short-term goals. No long-term plans. They listened to the waves hum their lullaby and let the sun do the rest.

A coastline that refuses to hurry

San Diego does this thing where it makes ambition feel slightly embarrassing. The Pacific is too big, the light too generous, the pace too unbothered. You walk the coast path with a coffee going cold in your hand and slowly stop checking your phone, because there is genuinely nothing it can tell you that the horizon hasn't already settled.

I sat under the dragon trees for an hour. Maybe more. A pelican did a clumsy landing. A jogger went past twice. The sea lions did not move except to shuffle into a slightly more comfortable pile.

What I took home

Not photos, really — though I have those too. What I took home was the reminder that rest is not a reward you earn after the work. Sometimes it's just lying still in the warm comforter of sunlight on stone, listening, and letting the day arrive in its own order.

I think the sea lions knew this all along. I'm a slow learner, but I got there.

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